Friday, June 3, 2011

社交之道

今日同一個同事餞行。平時我一定唔出席,但呢個同事太老友,唯有好不情願地浦一浦頭。


間酒吧叫Stitch,d waitresses 質數幾好。



Dondon叫左Guinness。


炸curly fries。


女主角Neha,將會去Morgan Stanley 做。帶埋老公出席。


睇下各位同事幾享受。佢地鍾意傾計,更鍾意飲酒。




再睇下隻大鵪鶉。此時心裡正盤算點懾走。



好不容易捱了一小時,走時我同Dondon講,"唉,係香港我同朋友出街好開心架,識新朋友又易。黎到呢道都唔同既?佢地淨係識飲酒,共同話題又唔多。"               


Dondon既社交技巧比我好好多 - 同咩性別,年齡,種族既人都可以好多野講。佢叫我聽下人講野,到適當時候搭兩句咀就得。


真係咁易就好囉。                                                               


                                                                                                                                                                         


6 comments:

Peter said...

Dondon值得學習, 既來之則安之, 都係一晚嗰兩三個鐘頭啫, 主要係送別朋友, 唔使俾自己咁大壓力. Have a pleasant weekend.
[版主回覆06/04/2011 10:43:00]總知梗係周身唔聚財咁。不過同番香港d朋友一齊我就會回復正常

The Teacher said...

The "experts" say that the fairer sex is supposed to be much better at communications...
[版主回覆06/04/2011 11:23:00]因為Dondon個隻叫吹水而並非溝通

fatty said...

我都同你一樣!我唔識、或者唔同嘴形,我就剩飲無水吹!
[版主回覆06/05/2011 03:59:00]哈哈哈,起碼有得飲。睇黎我要試下學飲酒喇。

fatty said...

我有個波友,中國北大尖子,去美國讀完博士,在日本雷曼做,唔到三個月無得撈,輾轉來到香港 Morgan Stanley ,我問佢是否公司給你住房津貼(一個人住我樓上,萬八蚊租)。
他說是自己租!
我問他有無六、七萬一個月薪金!
他說薪金就差不多,加埋 bonus 大概 十、一二萬。在美國可能唔算高,但香港絕對是高薪一族!
不過他說好多野做,做唔得耐,四十歲前要轉做高級點、或賺夠退休
[版主回覆06/05/2011 22:36:00]做得呢行真係要又醒又捱得。
嘩十一二萬一個月,比我咁慳既人做到40歲就退休lu。

BigDaddy said...

You were very sociable when we met the last time, and Dondon was a great guy to talk with!
I also feel easier when hanging out with Asians...may be that's me!!
Morgan Stanley is still hiring??  Good for her, make some big bucks, retire!!
There are a lot of high paying jobs out there, but what is "enough"?  One million? 10 millions??  We are never satisfy!!
[版主回覆06/06/2011 03:54:00]第一次見面已經好有親切感喇
很好的問題 - 甚麼是足夠。人慾望係無始境,得一想二。

Vicky said...

angela1126hk   ~點講好呢!! 你內心會唔會時常同香港比較. 感覺香港同聲同氣同文化. 比較容易溝通, 容易融入其中.   ~係美國, 其實只係轉換咗地點,文化....所以, 你就有點格格不入, 連social skill 嘅信心都失去埋呢?   ~去Morgan stanley工作.....好叻女呀!!
[版主回覆06/07/2011 07:25:00]對啊! 黎左美國我既'種族歧視' + 排外心理嚴重了。我淨係愛香港人!