Monday, July 29, 2013

愛屋及烏宣佈失敗





星期六要同 Dondon 家人食 lunch,為慶祝 Dondon 生日 + Dondon 媽咪生日 + 同 Salina 個深圳家姐嚟玩。

Dondon 爸爸今次好正氣,叫阿炳負責埋單。

叫嘢時阿炳搶先,"We will all have water. Just water is fine."   叫嘢食嘞,Salina 想叫牛扒比佢家姐,阿炳真老實,講到明,"牛扒太貴了,點其他吧。" Salina 想叫 lobster,阿炳唔淮。結果阿炳自己叫個 ribs,加兩個 side dish - mac and cheese  同 cream of spinach 比 Salina。Salina 碟嘢嚟到得兩 pat 嘢,真失禮。

有 3 個小朋友------- 8 歲 5 歲同 2 歲,阿炳只叫了一個 burger slider 比佢地分。個 burger 好似粒大帶子咁大,連個 waiter 都睇唔過眼, "They won't have enough to share."  阿炳固然睬佢都傻。

搞到我唔敢叫 crab cakes,只點了個最平的 burger。

Dondon book 這間餐廳係因為知佢媽咪鍾意食嗰度嘅 tiramisu,佢媽咪想叫,阿炳竟然話,"這兒沒有甜點的。Check please!"

Dondon 爸爸可能覺得太肉酸,又可能覺得阿炳太可憐,張單嚟到立即拿了張單.............交比 Dondon 叫佢埋 。    哎呀早嚮啦,知先食好啲啦。




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Salina 個深圳家姐只有 33 歲,但成個阿嬋咁。好無禮貌,由頭到尾當我透明,同佢打招呼又無反應,淨係同 Dondon 講嘢, "Don 你甚麼時侯再回國內?" (阿嬋, 有我一日佢都唔會返喇)  "Don 你來我們再請你吃飯 " ( No thanks. 阿嬋,上次你大佬帶咗我 Dondon 去睇脫衣舞, 下次叫雞都似) "Don 你唔打算生小孩?" (見到你哋啲種我都唔想生)

嗰三個細路就成餐赤腳跑來跑去,大聲尖叫,又擰哂啲刀刀叉叉去玩,啲大人都唔管吓。嚇到個waiter 唔再帶其他客人入我哋嗰區。

好彩唔比叫 dessert,早走早著,我哋仲趕住去 DC 嘛。

回程車他們回去時 Dondon 爸爸再次提出叫我們在 Queens 買間屋租比佢哋。呢樣點樣愛屋及烏都好難了。我們根本唔想喺 Queens 買,升值能力低好多,佢哋想要嗰佢又係大陸人區。最羅命係 Dondon 爸爸講了,"我們交租於人倒不如幫你們供?" 嘩,佢當係 doing us a favor。仲有將來用乜易 Salina 話間屋係 Dondon 父母供的,他們要佔一半? (Dondon 爸爸已講名他的(有限)財產全歸兩個孫)。我絕對唔稀罕佢嗰少少錢,你唔佔我便宜我已經好多謝。

我真的想做到愛屋及烏,但當對方是這樣的人我好難勉強自己。見面時我會保持尊重,但要用愛呢個字看來沒多可能了。


15 comments:

Ceci said...

Well..... what can I say.... speechless to be honest.

但係我唔明點解Dondon爸爸突然唔駛阿炳俾錢喎, 正氣就要正氣到底嘛. 而且係請佢自己老婆家姐一家人呢!
[Ceci回覆07/30/2013 09:34:46]多謝關心。我OK啦,不過我估個影響應該係長遠嘅。
[版主回覆07/30/2013 05:31:58]我諗佢都係可憐阿炳,一個人揾錢四個人使。
Ceci你心情好啲未?

Grimace said...

真係好cheap,話曬都係自己人!如果係我真係唔頂順阿炳,叫D平野唔緊要,最緊要飽吖,真係好肉酸!間屋梗係租比外人好過,收租都易D,又唔洗意見多多,賺到錢俾錢你6699買野食好過,無甘煩!要企硬,如果唔係萬劫不復。
[版主回覆07/30/2013 05:47:09]"萬劫不復". 形容得太好喇!
阿炳真係一絕架。SALINA話佢哋拍拖時唔好話出街食飯,阿炳連泊車費油錢都要SALINA夾返。咁都肯嫁,話唔係為咗個美籍我都唔信。

HM said...

Why couldn't DonDon and his brother split the bills in half?

What does DonDon think about buying a house for his parents to live in?

In all honesty, if my parents tell me to buy them a house, I will probably go ahead with it. But I know they won't, so it's a moot point.

Difference between my husband and I - if my parents make a suggestion and I disagree, I tell them as is. No hard feelings. If my in-laws make a suggestion and my husband disagrees, he tells them he will think about it. Why can't he be honest about it?
[版主回覆07/30/2013 09:38:13]一講到DONDON屋企人的所為就好多問號,可惜我哋正常人係唔會識答。
我都係,我爸爸媽咪有乜要求我都會滿足佢哋, 因為我知佢哋為我負出了幾多。相反DONDON家人只當DONDON水魚一條。

Jampig said...

明,始終唔系同一條腸出,再加上人品又系咁,唉,都幾難相處,好再唔洗一齊住
[Jampig回覆07/30/2013 15:19:26]哇,你好大方,好有愛啊!我會選擇送他們去好D的老人院
[版主回覆07/30/2013 09:39:14]好彩!但如果DONDON父母老咗要去老人院我都會同佢哋住。

fatty said...

千祈唔好同親人有租務交易!租俾父母,講下咩,唔交租時,唔通告佢、趕佢走!
做生意都係,分分鐘無親戚做!
看來你都係隻眼開、隻眼閉算啦!愛屋及烏要平等相對,不能一廂情願!
正所謂你對我好,我雙倍對你更加好!相信你都係這樣想!
我去同你爸爸畫展影下相,讓他有個留念!不過叫佢唔好請我食飯!小意思。要長輩請,於禮不合
[版主回覆07/30/2013 21:36:52]連細佬都係咁講。我已經同DONDON傾過,佢會婉拒佢父母的了。
多謝FATTY!爸爸實好開心,因為我諗個畫展係無人去架。

Mrs. Tin Tin said...

did you eat something else (more) after leaving the restaurant?
[版主回覆07/30/2013 21:41:42]我哋跟住揸車去DC,沿途食哂包大薯片,晚上食BUFFET。補返哂

Mrs. Wu said...

如果我係你,我覺得同佢地食野好樣衰呀!
佢地遲下黎NY住?打死都吾好租比佢地!睇佢地就知吾會比租個D人啦(吾好意思,對佢地有D反感!)
去邊間餐廳呀? 你以後都吾好去啦,費事咁樣衰
算啦,愛屋及烏不如愛自己多D啦
[版主回覆07/31/2013 00:23:18]話佢似 43 MRS WU你都好好人。我會估佢過五張。
[Mrs. Wu回覆07/30/2013 23:58:36]佢真係得33? 佢個裝扮.....似43喎
[版主回覆07/30/2013 23:50:10]噢SALINA家姐。。。我諗唔會嘞, 佢多仔大啲或者過嚟讀書?唔關我事。
[Mrs. Wu回覆07/30/2013 23:47:45]咁salina家姐遲下過來住?
[版主回覆07/30/2013 23:42:08]係呀,o個日真係好尷尬,Salina 落 order 竟然講講吓講唔掂用咗國語,但又堅持同佢啲細路講英文。好彩最後 Dondon 埋單,因為分分鐘呀炳比唔夠 tips。
Dondon 父母喺 NY 架,喺度成 40+ 年,但唔知點解依然全大陸風味。

孖記 said...

又過一關,當他们為月事可也,無謂費神,DD對得著妳便0K.他們是N0B0DY
[版主回覆07/31/2013 19:29:30]笑死我喇,我唯有咁諗啦,一個月一次,平時唔好搞我地就算。

小友 said...

原來最後都係要Dondon埋單
個阿炳真係 ...... 個世界你唔講我都唔相信有d咁極品既人
[版主回覆07/31/2013 19:30:31]多得佢我先有咁多嘢同各人分享。

豆潤之家小四 said...

Dondon 生日同順便招待 Salina 家姐,最尾都係 Dondon 埋單 …… 阿炳呢粒超級無敵縮骨算爆小那星,果然並非浪得虛名!
奶奶全程有無出過聲呀?
[版主回覆08/01/2013 01:02:23]成家都係XO
[豆潤之家小四回覆08/01/2013 00:54:15]呢個極品阿奶都唔弱喎…
[版主回覆07/31/2013 19:33:34]太鍾意阿炳個名
Dondon 媽咪如果會出聲就幾年前講咗。佢有得食就得,理得你。

Vicky said...

Angela
-阿炳+ Selina家姐班小朋友, 係就係冇規舉, 但都冇理由一個餐三個小朋友share. 我覺依一班小朋友, 平時, 都好大可能食唔飽, 冇人理, 好可憐.
-朋友Or親威都唔好有錢銀瓜葛, 買間屋租比Selina 個家姐= 送層樓比佢, 唔好上檔.
-關係要雙方面, Dondon 屋企人活係自己世界, 你都冇謂勞氣太多, 盡量少見d. 人都精神d.
[版主回覆08/01/2013 01:04:44]3個小朋友都面青青。
間屋係Dondon父母想租,都唔制呀。

冬日 Winter said...

Dondon 爸爸可能覺得太肉酸就俾張單Dondon 埋...咁就會唔肉酸? 佢爸爸真有問題 !
佢33歲亞姐....真的似過 50 喎 ...!!
[版主回覆08/02/2013 22:11:13]我諗佢係可憐阿炳要養四個人。我同 Dondon 就兩份糧兩個洗。
嗰隻玉扼先攞命......

Jo 姐姐 said...

唉, 阿炳咁都做得出, 真係無嘢好講喇
[版主回覆08/14/2013 23:03:13]真係未見過!JO姐姐你返嚟喇?

The Teacher said...

I thought the problem was Salina, so it's actually 阿炳...
[版主回覆08/14/2013 23:02:38]Both ah!

秋葉阿姨 said...

Angela 敍述十分爽快,看得人哈哈笑!不過呢個女人唔睬人,好冇禮貌。
唔怪之得妳嬲嘅。謝謝分享!
[版主回覆08/14/2013 23:03:47]我平時無咁小氣架,對住佢哋就失控。